Thursday, October 19, 2006

Dun worry....

CF had a BGR talk yesterday. Indeed sister Shirley from AYA gave a clear explanation bout it..What we should do and what we should not.

I'm sure in every girl's heart there is a Mr RIGHT. The prince charming must be tall, good looking, loves God, rich, smart, intellectual, romantic, good manner and so on! Girls dream of marrying the perfect guy and have a romantic wedding. Then they will live happily ever after...just like the fairy tale stories and drama we watched. Of coz i do dream about my Mr right too. But if we look into the problem seriously, it's not easy to find Mr Perfect who is flawless and meet all the criteria we wan!

However, it is possible through Christ! God knows the desire in everybody's heart...What type of guy u prefer, the look, the behaviour.The only thing you have to do is ASK for those who ask shall be given. So think BIG and share with HIM, He'll give you His best because He loves us so much!Being single is no sad thing, it doen't mean you are not good or not wanted, it's just not the right time!Never settle on the 2nd best because everybody deserves the best! Dun jump into a relationship harshly just because you're desperate when people around u hav bf and you dun hav, it's not worth it..Waste of time n $$$(phone calls + Sms). Pray about it and i'm sure God will provide us with a perfect life partner. Eventhough He has not, fear not because we are already overwhelmed with LOVE from our heavenly Father. Shirley said, the partner is to enhance your life only.

After the talk, i realised that we are worrying too much. Worrying will i get marry, will i find a Christ like partner etc.It's not necessary and it's burdening. Just submit all the burdens unto Him. i reminded myself: My future is under His control. Eventhough i have to stay single throughout my life, i have no complain because the Love He gives me is so much until i cant contain it...Thank you my God!

The souvenier given after the talk

At the beginning of the talk, we were asked to give a short explanation bout the souvenier in related to the talk(BGR).

Sue Chuen: It looks like a male symbol....which is the source of every girl's heart break! !!

Actual meaning: The clip has 2 flaps which represent a boy and a girl. The clip will only work with the presence of spring in the middle which represent God.....

wasSup Doc : When a boy and a girl are Walking faithfully towards God, they are actually walking closer together.....He has made everything beautiful in its time.

7 comments:

Ah Pei said...

*beaming with smile*

too bad i missed it..:<

daniel said...

hey i think this is one of your best posts :)

take care!

shaz said...

I WANT THAT SOURVENIR!! :P

*jeSSicA* said...

wow...
are u hinting that u gonna find someone soon?
*winks* =P

Ang3 said...

Jess,i'm hinting i will NOT make an effort to find la dear!!It's the other way round....Blur kah?Hehe

ivyyy! said...

my dear! :) wow. i'm so encouraged to hear that you learnt so much during the talk. yup:) as we wait upon God's beautiful timing, let us continue to build on our character that will make us the best partner and blessing to our future partner. and btw.. i like the triangle diagram :) hee. keep that in mind! (learn tt in church 6 years ago during bgr talk!)

lishun said...

it's supposed to be "su chuen" not "sue chen". i hope chuen doesn't read this...lol.